What for people get children?

— You love children?

— Children — not so, but process...

Whence children undertake, all adult people know. And that children — life flowers, too is known to all. But these flowers not simply deduce some parents from themselves, and sometimes and lead up to full loss of humanism and mind. Many people get children, and then plunge into long-term struggle against them. Independently or with attraction of teachers and psychologists. Every third child had to hear from the parent (as a rule, from mum) a phrase: «In my death you are guilty (will be!»

Remember words of one compassionate song:

And what for I on light have appeared,
And what for mother has given birth to me?

At times it would be desirable to tell to parents of small and overage children: well you so suffer?

The person is a unique being which can meaningly choose and solve for itself: to have or not to have children, how many them to have, when get them etc. All other beings should to solve, have or to have posterity when it to have and how many. They simply breed, and all.

All ecologists converge that a unique source of rupture of the nature — the person. But still nobody has offered unique in that case decisions: to reduce number of this individual to a minimum.

Sardonikus

In this article we not undertake to estimate, it is good or it is bad, that the person meaningly regulates birth rate. We will ask other question. The person has decided to get the child. What thoughts preceded this step? What has induced it on it? And what thoughts of parents accompany the born kid?

What for people get children? The set from them, as a rule, not too strongly reflects on it. Simply they know, that to certain age usually all normal citizens get children.

But it only seeming simplicity of a question. Actually the birth of the child is accompanied by set of motives which far are not always obvious. Anyway, at first. And they are realised then. And when it appears, that these motives are not satisfied, guilty happens... The child.

Very often children (and everything, that is connected with them) is the reason of set of problems and experiences. Therefore it would be quite good to understand, because of what all so has turned out. If children only are planned not bad to understand, what for to you it is necessary — then not to test disappointment in the most different occasions.