Suspiciousness or the husband loves the wife healthy...

It is exact! But for some reason the painful, weak girls stirred up by constant indispositions lose sight of it. Eternally they ozabochenno glance at hours: whether it is time to accept the next pill. At any indisposition hastily shower in a mouth a handful of tablets. Understand all and all illnesses. They are familiar to you? I, of course, have a little exaggerated, but the portrait is quite recognised. Fondly to ask, whether such girls like men. Yes, like one of them can, but... You as men do not suffer a smell of medicines would know! Certainly, you know it: near to you the daddy, the grandfather, the brother, the colleague or simply neighbour. I will tell to you on a secret: near to painful girls of the man fade.

Not without reason in the people speak: «the brother loves sister rich, the husband the wife — healthy». Certainly, any can be ill, the main thing as it concerns it. Goes in cycles in the sores or not? Whether they grow for it in act of nature? Whether it falls spirit, having picked up a trivial cold? And men? How they, consult with the hvorobami? And with illnesses of the girlfriends?

Why tomatoes fade?

Ljuba was the girl enough dense. Anyway, it did not make impression of a pale infirmity. But of the health thought much. Probably, her mother who has worked all life by the nurse in city hospital was guilty in that. Every morning it ozabochenno touched Lubin a forehead: how there at us with temperature? There was it hypochondriac And extremely careful mum. Hardly that, stacked Ljubochku in bed and... Followed treatment under the full program Further. With banks, mustard plasters, physiotherapy.

Ljuba in the footsteps of mum in medicine has not gone. She has decided to study as the economist and has entered the institute. There has got acquainted with Cyril, the cheerful guy, the owner of a loud voice and bad hearing. But it did not prevent to sing much to it. The student's companies, sleepless nights, campaigns with spending the night at a fire, a food in a dining room. Ljuba has grown thin, has got stronger and has matured. Kirjushka was delighted with it. The class little girl! Here only...

At Ljuby even the voice varied, when she started to speak about illnesses. When business concerned real hvorob when it was necessary to undertake emergency measures, he is Cyril still understood. Also reconciled to the fate. Resignedly swallowed day-other tablet which Ljuba got from the enormous box from under boots. But Ljuba flew into a passion and as once her mother, gave out to it under the full program.

Another was worse. Ljuba constantly listened to itself. And constantly was engaged in self-treatment. Oh, has pricked in right to a side! So, analginum, but-shpa, allohol... And the handful of pills and tablets goes to a mouth. The throat tickles Something. So to grease ljugolem, gramitsidin under language, "asterisk" to pound, leaves evkalipta to make for rinsing... Something heart beats. A tachycardia? Do not forget, in days 24 hours, and in a human body set of bodies, each of which that aches, cuts, beats.

All these sensations Ljuba generously shared with Cyril. At first he played a trick on it. Then began to deride. And after it began to be irritated madly. Reproaches fell down: «Well how many it is possible! You are ill — be treated: descend to the doctor, pass inspection, hand over analyses. There is a diagnosis — there is a treatment. How will not bother to listen to itself since morning till the night? So it is possible to find at itself absolutely all illnesses. Except water in a knee and a postnatal fever so, apparently, was at hero Dzheroma K. Dzheroma».

Ljuba endlessly took offence: «What stale! On the health spits. And I to it am indifferent». Well — as there it is spoken? — There has passed love — zavjali tomatoes...

Hypochondriac you mine!

The most insulting: Cyril was right. And if Ljuba it has obeyed, maybe, and its life has developed differently. To it simply followed stop to be engaged in self-treatment. To address to experts-physicians, to pass inspection. If those have found at it any illness, here it and should be treated. But, it is visible, the suspiciousness which has developed thanks to mum's vigilant attention to health of the daughter was main illness Ljuby. And itself Ljuba, probably, differed the raised uneasiness. Here to you and result.

It is known: every fourth person under adverse circumstances can turn to the person hypochondriac. On Dalju, the hypochondriac person — mistrustful, shy cautious, suspicious, too cares about health the and in insignificant.neduge sees dangerous illness.

All of us, to a greater or lesser extent, people hypochondriac — we are afraid to be ill and die. Though it is natural, but quite often the alarm is provoked not by a serious illness, and stories of friends, hobby for the medical literature, films about heroes suffering from awful incurable illnesses. Ignorance, incompetence, misunderstanding of any things (for the expert quite explainable) cause at times irrational fear.

At some people similar fears turn to persuasive conditions. Doctors name them ipohondricheskoj fixing. So suspiciousness itself becomes illness at which the person constantly searches for acknowledgement to the fears. At fear, as is known, eyes are great: soon imaginary patient already considers itself doomed. He is assured, something somewhere decays and just about something terrible will open. So absolutely normal person turns to the hypochondriac, cannot take itself in hands.

To thicket suspiciousness women suffer. They are more emotional, are vulnerable, their nervous system under oppression of stresses can give failure.

What is the fear, knows everyone. This burdensome, extremely unpleasant feeling of internal intensity, alarm and the anxiety, connected with danger expectation. Scientists name its phobia. Be frequent at one person the whole bouquet of various phobias can. Fear of infections and microbes is called bakteriofobiej. People subject to her often address to doctors «for preventive maintenance» and endlessly wash hands. Fear to be ill with a cancer — kantserofobija — or fear of cardiac arrest — kardiofobija — force hypochondriac to be surveyed almost monthly and to pass serious procedures. There are the phobias connected directly with fear before «white dressing gowns» or injections (and suddenly chtonibud will bring?) . Agorafobija — fear of open spaces — too delivers unfortunate awful sufferings. They are afraid to remain for a second one day and night. As a matter of fact, it is the same fear of death, illness, but motivation is the loneliness. Klaustrofobija — fear of the closed space — too one of morbid depression "masks". The person starts to be afraid even of the lift. The list of phobias constantly grows: here and terrorofobija, katastrofobija, transportofobija.

All these phobias — proof psychosomatic displays. And here already arrangements and sneers you will not help — serious treatment at the psychiatrist is necessary. The before the sick will address to the doctor, the better, differently business can reach crazy ideas and even thoughts on suicide.

Therefore, if think, that suffer suspiciousness, be surveyed. If and after analyses do not show deviations from norm and doctors will not put the diagnosis, you will be overcome still by"the"bad"presentiments eclipsing pleasure of a life, — go to the psychotherapist or the psychiatrist.

On a note

• If three quarters of your notebook it is occupied by phones of familiar physicians if you after the casual story about death of the stranger cannot come to the senses week, means, you the person hypochondriac.

• not to urge forward the suspiciousness, try not to read without need the medical literature. And never make to itself the diagnosis independently.

• Suspiciousness — display of mental frustration. Means, it is necessary to strengthen own mentality: it is less than stresses, more than fresh air, vitamins, small holidays and gifts to favourite.

• Now there are many ways to get rid of suspiciousness. Including, not resorting to the help of medicines. Hypnosis, grasses, sports, reflexotherapy, acupressure, a sou-dzhok. And from your morbid depression there will be no also a trace!

• Consider: if suspiciousness has passed for all admissible limits, the person is simply switched off from a social life. He cannot work. All its thoughts, all desires concentrate on one: how to stand for itself before illness and death. Do not lead up itself to such condition!