How to get acquainted with the liked man? Men love when the acquaintance initiative is shown by the woman. Ways of acquaintance

Many men absolutely easy concern to that the acquaintance initiative is shown by the woman. And even often only are glad to it. Why he does not show the initiative if you were pleasant to it? The man it is simple can spasovat before your unearthly beauty, be frightened of possible refusal, and who knows, goodness knows that else! So cease to hesitate, the main thing, be tactful and do not lose feeling of a measure! If you really were pleasant to it, he will grow bolder in reply to your display of interest and the phone number will ask.

It is necessary to help for the man to show the initiative, to get rid of fear of defeat, to create in conversation psychologically comfortable atmosphere. If in reply to your display of interest it does not show the initiative, take your time to despair: business not that you were not pleasant to it, and that the man strongly hesitates, confused can, does not know what to tell. Try to provoke it: «Farewell, probably, we will not meet any more...», — only take your time promptly to leave, be late a little about it. If he sincerely is surprised: «Why?» — answer: «If you want, we, of course, can meet». In the event that it will express the consent, it is necessary to exchange co-ordinates or to agree about a meeting.

Certainly, it is better to exchange co-ordinates, whether it is not enough: suddenly either at it, or at you plans will change? But even if it will not express special desire to continue acquaintance, you will not lose the advantage. Do not hesitate to show the initiative, think, to men too refuse, they do not die, besides anything informal or supernatural in it is not present.

Especially it is not necessary to worry because of notorious public opinion. At surrounding problems full, well also what, what someone has looked in your party? You with it "somebody" will christen children? Remember once and for all, your private life is your private life, and on grannies at a stop, cute sopljachek, bending the mouths, in general, upon all witnesses of your acquaintance spit and forget about them! Should tell, that such here witnesses actually envy your boldness. Grandmas regret about the last youth and the missed possibilities, the youth cannot get rid of complexes, in general, all at them have problems, therefore they and try to climb in soul another.

At first sight banal and hackneyed questions, for example, how to pass, pass to such place, can work wonders. They are perceived naturally enough, but reaction of the man who have liked you to them allows to see, he has become interested in you or it is necessary to look for happiness in other place.

If in reply to your question, he has thrown: I "do not know", — and has turned away, means, the hero all the same not that. If, smiling to you, starts to explain in detail, as as,—. Hence, this man is interested by you, and it is possible pass to an exchange in co-ordinates, especially, it can to be caused you to spend. Take your time with conclusions if the man who has liked you explains, but behaves somehow clumsily. Perhaps he simply innocent a civilisation the young man, and a shower at it pure and light also waits for you. Help it, gain it: smile to it, and he will grow bolder!

The elementary receptions of acquaintance

Now particularly walk in places in which it is possible to get acquainted with the man, and get acquainted! Do not forget about the smile. You should smile sincerely! Train before a mirror naturally to smile, on your person there should be no animal grins. A smile — a symbol of affability, an openness, sincerity. Men at conversation turn the first attention on a smile, then already on a figure, and into last turn — on your clothes. You will smile to it charmingly — and everything, it at all will not give attention to some lacks of your figure or your attire. Smile how if you smiled to yourself. Think of what you the charming, remarkable woman and smiles to itself. Besides such smile will bring mysteriousness, mystery in your image. Smile! Then the man will like to you trust and liking, and to it you will want to get acquainted with you more close, after all such charming and mysterious...

At stadium, in sports Palace, in general, at competitions

Approach to it and ask for whom it is ill. «Why you like this command?», — draw out it. The avalanche of the information on its favourite command or the player interesting to it will fall upon you. Smile, sincerely admire with that he speaks. «Spartak — the champion!» — he exclaims with burning eyes. «I too very much like this command» — you answer, admired looking on it and smiling. Further from you it is required to insert sincerely admired remarks and to smile — he phone will ask for you, after all he will want to get acquainted with you more close: you such charming and mysterious and besides are interested in the same, as it! The main thing, be self-assured, admire, but do not fawn!

In the street

Approach to it, greet, smile and tell, that at you on phone the battery has sat down, and ask for it its phone: «I need to be called urgently. Help me, please». The main thing, look attentively, whether there is at it phone, and disconnect a sound at the tube, and that will ring out unexpectedly and will give out you. But even if will give out, it is possible to explain directly to the man, that you simply wished to get acquainted with it. I assure you, he will understand all and will get acquainted with you with pleasure.

By the way, do not formulate the request, using negations, for example, «you will not help me?» Or «you do not take?» — such statement of a question means negation, and the man can become puzzled. More self-assured man, will answer: «it is final, I will help». And here not absolutely self-assured or reflected on something the the person can not understand, the help is necessary to you or not — it is struck by your beauty and not clear question. Thus such statement of a question it is possible to run also on rough "is not present", only be not upset, same it the rude fellow, instead of you.

On a beach

He reads any book? Politely take an interest, than this book is interesting, smile, certainly. Pay it a compliment: «At you such beautiful sunburn! It is possible to take an interest, for sunburn you use what cream?» — smile. Necessarily take an interest, why the man uses it. Admire with its ability to keep on water or its style of swimming. Ask to give you swimming lessons. «You so well float! How you to it have learnt?» — do not forget to smile charmingly.

At a stop

«Excuse, you, apparently, have come earlier... 67th did not pass? Something it long is not present...» — ask, smiling.

In cafe (restaurant, a bar)

It sits at the next little table, smokes? Ask for it a lighter. If it nice, pay it a compliment, unostentatiously ask, where it has got it... Smile... He will not notice, how will change for your little table, and then your phone will ask. A lighter ordinary? Returning it, thank and take an interest, that he thinks of weather... If you have interested him, conversation will be continued by him, and for this purpose, of course, will change for your little table.

At it near at hand phone, a player, the laptop or any other electronic device? Approach, and sincerely smiling, exclaim the surprise concerning freakish hi-tech model. About, the wave of the information will fall upon you concerning its favourite toy. Smile, admire, and acquaintance will be necessarily continued. The main thing, do not make advances, and sincerely be interested.

In shop

You liked the seller in shop? Take an interest in its opinion, ask to help to make a choice, for example, tell, that you choose a gift to the father (to the brother, the uncle etc.) . If it is a men's wear store, ask to try on it a jacket, motivate it with that at it the same size, as at the father. Also do not forget to smile. In a sporting goods store, fishing, tourist and other accessories to taking a great interest natures ask to choose a training apparatus, hooks, a fishing tackle, a snowboard... You do not understand, that is necessary for a hobby of your brother. To you willingly will give advice, and not only the seller: can, you liked that man who chooses climbing equipment? Take an interest in its opinion, smile, and he not only will advise, but also will express desire to spend you, and to learn number of your phone. Does not hasten with a phone number, — show the initiative, ask, whether it is possible to take advantage in the future of its advice. I assure you, interest to you from its party is provided! And a new meeting too.

At an exhibition (in picture gallery)

Approach and politely take an interest in its opinion on a picture at which looks. Smile. About as it understands art!.

On a party

The slow melody sounds, it costs at a rack, observing for dancing couples? Priglasi it on dance. Do not hesitate! Also do not forget to smile.

In a court yard, in park

It constantly walks with the dog? Deduce the dog at the same time. Start conversation about its such «big, clever, strong» to a dog... Smile. You do not have doggie? Leave, for example, as if you go to shop at the same time, as it. Smiling, admire with its dog! It will by all means continue conversation on the doggie, then will pass to an exchange of phones.

In any other place

Drop something (a handbag, a pocket mirror, a notebook etc.), passing by it. If it the person brought up, it rushes to lift yours veshchichku. It to you submits it, you smiling: «Thanks, you so are gallant!» Men adore compliments, yes-yes! Compliments operate on them sometimes even more effectively, than on women. The main thing, laudatory words should be sincere and to a place.

Ask to open a bottle "Pepsi", motivate the request with that the cover is twirled too strongly and you do not have not enough forces to turn off it. Thank: «About, thanks. You such strong!» — delightfully smiling.

If you have a car, a gait as follows. Park near to its car, casually remove the plug from the accumulator, lift a cover of a cowl and sincerely be perplexed: «That to my car has occurred?» Address to it for the help: «the Young man, excuse, look, please. I do not know, why it is not got». Smile. He, of course, will look, will quickly correct "malfunction" with the great pleasure. Thank him, sincerely smiling: «you are a genius! I so am grateful to you. At all I do not know, that I without you did!» Not out of place will ask, that with car was not so: «And what with it was not so? Perhaps learn me to eliminate a malfunction?»

By the way, men like to train! To ask its advice — the most true way to interest it! Even if you know, that it is necessary to do, ask it advice — it not only with pleasure will tell to you as as, but also will like to you sincere interest, and further all depends on you! I repeat to get acquainted with the man, and the main thing to interest in its person — ask advice, address for the help. The unique requirement: the help should not be too labour-consuming, differently having gone deep in work, he can get tired and then it will be already necessary nothing for it. To pierce tyres, to try to charge it stokilogrammovye bags, to drop in sewer mine the things and to ask it to climb and get there etc. — it is not necessary, such request you will cause in it feeling of irritation — after all this work is excessive! The help which from it is required should be feasible, and the main thing, not demanding is a lot of time and victims.

By the way, men adore, when them praise and, besides, name geniuses. «You are a genius!» Or «you are a genius!» — these simple words addressed to the man, work wonders! In it unprecedented force wakes up, it is ready on feats and... On long acquaintance to that woman which has said them.

If the man does not react to your shifts, be not imposed — leave him alone. Eventually, it not last man in your life!

It is possible to make last attempt, stretch it the left hand at parting. If the man is brought up, he will understand what to shake it is impossible. Naturally will start to think out an exit from the developed situation what exit will be, depends on you a two. If the man is not brought up, can go further, what for it to you? On dull and ill-bred it is not necessary to focus the attention, around so much charming, strong and brave men!

Leaving the man the number, phone, write down also its co-ordinates! What for it is necessary to do it? Not to sit after acquaintance by weeks, hypnotising silent phone. The man can not call, because has casually lost a piece of paper with your number though it actually would like to continue acquaintance. The man can dial your number, but, having come across on "is occupied", not to call back. The man can collect phone numbers of various girls, but not call. Therefore, I repeat once again, write down its phone number, do not wait for favour from the party. Even if the type which collects an aforementioned collection has got to you, do not worry, after all the negative result is too result! But you will precisely know, that for its call to wait it is not necessary, and can start the further acquaintances.

Happens also such, that the man collected yes collected telefonchiki, but one of girls has called back itself, they have met, and he has understood, that it — its destiny. So safely call itself if after week term the man does not call.

At you necessarily all will turn out! Create or expand already available circle of acquaintances, let you will have a possibility to choose. It is necessary to create choice illusion. What for? Recollect a life of our great-grandmothers: they, poor things, should go in marriage for on whom the choice of parents will fall, is never frequent they even saw the groom before wedding. Certainly, sometimes there were happy moments, stars converged in the necessary combination, and the new married couple was happy. But in most cases home life addressed for them penal servitude, the unloved, rough husband, and monstrous prospect of utter darkness and a sad current of a life. They did not have a choice.

At you choice possibility is! You the independent person, you to yourself can choose the partner in life. If the crowd of admirers is not present, it yet the occasion to suffice the first man. Create a circle of acquaintances and choose! Create it is artificial choice possibility.

Even if with someone you in the recent past did not have a relation, do not become limp. On the contrary, you had freedom of actions. The life proceeds! And the most important thing, is not necessary to you many years (and even all life) to spend with not that man under one roof. Look at rupture on the other hand. The man has left. Means, he did not understand you, your soul, aspirations, ocharovatelnosti, keenness and kindness. What for to you such person? It it is perfect to you it is not necessary! You are worthy the best, than to vegetate near to the stranger to you the man (time he does not understand you, means, it the stranger even if you knew each other many years). I understand, to realise it sadly. You can pogrustit, but only not long, and that while you will sit at home, having stared in one point, any more enterprising woman will try to withdraw your prince. Will suffice to long, leave the house, call to friends (can, they have unintentionally forgotten about you, it is necessary to remind that you are). Remember, you are, this most important thing, the rest will be put. You are!!!

Get acquainted, expand the circle of acquaintances, create choice illusion. So it will be easier to you to analyze lacks and advantages of men. How you can confidently tell to yourself, what this man — the best if you with anybody have not compared it?! It is not necessary to become isolated on the first got man, it can appear not your hero, it is necessary to compare acquaintances with each other and to choose. It will help you to learn to distinguish true feelings from the artificial. To understand, that moves you and your elect: the love or all the same is short-term, the love cast by romanticism of conditions, an easy sea breeze. Your life depends on your choice. What for to reap the fruits of errors which can to be made? Besides, creating such circle of acquaintances, you accumulate experience of dialogue with strangers, and such experience never will be superfluous.

Once again I repeat to marry successfully, it is necessary to choose the man from among others, instead of to suffice the first, that will get under a hand. Therefore get acquainted, get acquainted and once again get acquainted!

Do not hesitate, each unfamiliar man, the same person, as well as you. Perhaps he too suffers from loneliness? Therefore be not afraid to go on contact of the first, many men only will be glad to it. Think out ways of acquaintances and use them. Train sincerely to smile and get acquainted with men. Ability to find common language — never will be superfluous.

By the way, about ability to communicate. Dialogue is, first of all, ability to listen to the person, sincerely to be interested in that he speaks, whether it be its problems, hobby or pleasure. Encourage the person to speak about itself. Listen, not interrupting, with sincere interest and admiration, let says that for it is actual. Think, you to whom prefer to talk? Correctly, with that who attentively listens to you. In the same way and to other people it is important, that the interlocutor listened to them, has been interested that they speak.

To like another, it is necessary to say with them that is pleasant it and that occupies them, to evade from disputes on subjects unimportant, seldom to set questions and not to allow at all to them to suspect, that it is possible to be more reasonable, than they.

La Rochefoucauld

So, talking to the man, encourage it to say about itself, that is interesting to it, and it is attentive, with sincere admiration listen to it. The man will necessarily want to meet you yet once, after all you so lovely smile, you so are charming, and, that is important, you such pleasant interlocutor! Even if you have not inserted a word, you for it will be the pleasant interlocutor because listened to it and admired with it!